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With Friends Like Those . . .
I need a good dose of reality to help me with a big problem. Please give me the…
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Men Are From Mars (and So Are Women)
What do women want??? I am a good-looking guy. I’m fit and trim—ski instructor in winter, boater during…
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Reaction Time
Regarding the 20-year-old virgin [Dategirl, Jan. 14]yes, there is something wrong with her. She is most likely a…
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Flesh or fantasy
Ms. Dategirl, I’m a single 40-year-old guy. I started using magazine pornography 25 years ago to masturbate to.…
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Who? What? Where? When? Why? How?
Why familiarity breeds contempt has never been clear to me. It seems that humans are predisposed to getting…
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T-Shirts to Tutus!
My girlfriend is a wonder. She’s loving, smart, sensitive, athletic, sweet, has amazingly warm hands, and our bodies…
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Solving the Nonproblem
I was hoping you would do me a favor. There is this absolutely despicable man with an ego…
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I’m NOT a Bad Kisser!
A couple months ago, an otherwise charming young man told me I was a bad kisser—mid-makeout! OK, we…
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Returning to the Scene of the Crime
Here’s my dilemma: Can you really go back? I lived with a guy on and off for about…
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Calling Mr. Right!
I am typically a serial monogamist. I haven’t been in a serious long-term relationship for many years, and…
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Born-Again Virgin
Dear Dategirl, With much trepidation and anxiety, I seek your counsel, O dating sage! I am a thirtysomething…
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The Waiting Game
I had been (past tense, she dumped me about three and a half weeks ago) in a relationship…
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Part-Time Luv-uh
My name is Jerome, and I ain’t had any in a long time! I’m at present incarcerated and…
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Bitch slap!
Hello Dategirl, Frequently, it happens that I will be at a party/club/friend’s house/whatever and will wind up talking…
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The worst sex i’ve ever had
The foulest, most disgusting sex I ever had was sex I never quite got around to having. I’d…
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Konvicts’ korner
Nothing brightens a gal’s day like getting a letter postmarked from prison! The overwhelming majority of the mail…
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My Summer of Celibacy
“Sexual love, so inequitably praised by the society, in reality is nothing but a serious mental disease, and…
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Bite Me, Cupid
I must say that your article about prostitution [Dategirl, Jan. 22] seemed one-sided. Men do all sorts of…
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Rock stud or dud?
Dear Dategirl, When I was in college, I lived with a guy who was in a marginally successful…
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Nutty or Not?
In regard to a recent column [“Good-bye Girl (I Mean It—Go!),” Feb. 9]: I think you are doing…