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I'm Not a Rat, but He Pulled a Gun

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I’m Not a Rat, but He Pulled a Gun

Dear Dategirl, I have a friend I met through work. Her husband works at the same company. She…

When Pedophiles Think They're Lovers

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When Pedophiles Think They’re Lovers

I get a lot of weird stuff in the mail—most of it more funny than frightening. But about…

He's Got Two With His Ex, but I Want My Own Kids

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He’s Got Two With His Ex, but I Want My Own Kids

Dear Dategirl, My friends just keep insisting love conquers all and I should just get married already and…

He's Such a Jealous Guy!

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He’s Such a Jealous Guy!

Dear Dategirl, My boyfriend is extremely jealous of my friends. I know it’s a common problem and you…

I Have a Girlfriend and a Fiancée. Am I Cheating?

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I Have a Girlfriend and a Fiancée. Am I Cheating?

Dear Dategirl, I recently met an amazing girl, and we started dating. The only problem is that I…

Help! I'm Sleeping With an Almost-Monk

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Help! I’m Sleeping With an Almost-Monk

Dear Dategirl, I just started seeing (well, dating and trying to have good sex with) this new guy.…

I Don't Feel Like I'm Worth Anything Anymore. Please Help

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I Don’t Feel Like I’m Worth Anything Anymore. Please Help

Dear Dategirl, I’ve just passed the two-year mark with my man. From afar, we’re looking good, but sometimes…

I Can't Have Sex With This Booger Picker

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I Can’t Have Sex With This Booger Picker

You Can Pick Your Friends . . .

Not Every Thought That Flits Through Your Brain Bears Broadcasting, and Other Lessons

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Not Every Thought That Flits Through Your Brain Bears Broadcasting, and Other Lessons

The other day I auditioned for a reality television show. Yes, of course, I’m aware of what an…

Ditching a Prude Is as Bad as the Hump-and-Dump

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Ditching a Prude Is as Bad as the Hump-and-Dump

A few weeks back (June 13, to be exact), I mentioned in passing that after extensive fieldwork on…

Girl, He's Sleeping His Way Through Your Circle of Friends

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Girl, He’s Sleeping His Way Through Your Circle of Friends

Dear Dategirl, Although I am sure you’re going to rip me a new one for even asking this…

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A Lid for Every (Crack) Pot

Dear Dategirl, I have a theory regarding men on Internet-dating sites and would like your feedback. I believe…

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No Humping on First Dates

Some weeks this column practically writes itself. I can’t wait to sit down and get to it. I…

Snoopy Redux

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Snoopy Redux

Dear Dategirl, I just read the column about the girl who happened upon her bf’s e-mail [May 23]—I…

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Dudes Offer Their Two Cents on the Datability of Ugly Chicks

Dear Dategirl, I’m a girl who has almost everything going for me: a good job, a great sense…

So, My Lover's E-Mail Account Just Happened to Be Open

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So, My Lover’s E-Mail Account Just Happened to Be Open

Dear Dategirl, I’d been together with my ex-boyfriend for about three years. It was quite the roller-coaster ride…

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Friends Don’t Let Friends . . . 

Dear Dategirl, I have a friend who is very smart and attractive but just can’t seem to get…

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When Pals Won’t Put Out

Dear Dategirl, I’ve known Kevin my entire life. Our parents are close, and we have hung out off…

Catch of the Day

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Catch of the Day

My best friend is the HOTTEST guy I’ve ever met. I really love him, but every time we…

Mizz Manners

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Mizz Manners

Last night I had some time to kill before a friend’s reading and decided to take myself out…