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She’s a Fake, He’s Sheltered, and the Money Is …

Dear Dategirl, Does this sound normal? Two people have been in a relationship for about six months, and…

Don't Call Me, Call Viagra

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Don’t Call Me, Call Viagra

Dear Dategirl, I have recently started dating a nice guy. I don’t meet many of this variety and…

Cold Turkey Is the Only Way to Kick Him

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Cold Turkey Is the Only Way to Kick Him

Dear Dategirl, How do you recommend getting over a crush/obsession—aka the guy you mistakenly thought was “the one”…

I Like Men and Women, But Do I Have to be Bi?

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I Like Men and Women, But Do I Have to be Bi?

Dear Dategirl, I have been in relationships with both men and women, which makes me bisexual, I guess,…

Hey, What Happened to the Sex?

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Hey, What Happened to the Sex?

Dear Dategirl, In August, I met a wonderful man (age 39) when we both lived in Seattle. His…

Dategirl, legitimately flabbergasted at your dating horrors.

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Dategirl in Hardcover: How Not to Date

Yes, you can avoid meeting—and being—a dating catastrophe! Our Judy tells you how!

New Year's Rut

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New Year’s Rut

Dear Dategirl, I am a single, attractive, 22-year-old college student who seems to be in a rut, and…

Guide to Holiday Hookups

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Guide to Holiday Hookups

Dear Dategirl, I’m a recently divorced, middle-aged woman and am facing a problem that has me quite bothered.…

'Tis the Season to be Depressed

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‘Tis the Season to be Depressed

Dear Dategirl, I am a 34-year-old virgin. I have problems with fear and depression, and it has stopped…

Why This Old-Fashioned Catholic Girl Loves Planned Parenthood

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Why This Old-Fashioned Catholic Girl Loves Planned Parenthood

The other day I got an e-mail from a woman who works for a local Planned Parenthood chapter,…

Get Over It!

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Get Over It!

Dear Dategirl,I’m 22 years old and have technically been broken up with my girlfriend since February—ironically, on my…

Vacation With Disaster

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Vacation With Disaster

Dear Dategirl, As a new reader, I would be curious to know if you’ve covered the notion of…

Should I Stay or Should I Put My Finger Up Your Butt?

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Should I Stay or Should I Put My Finger Up Your Butt?

Dear Dategirl, I’ve been reading your column for a while now, so I’ve noticed a few references in…

How Can I Stay In a Sexless Relationship Without Feeling Resentful?

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How Can I Stay In a Sexless Relationship Without Feeling Resentful?

Dear Dategirl, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over six months, and it’s been wonderful. We…

Sisterhood of the Traveling Strap-On

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Sisterhood of the Traveling Strap-On

I have a question about the bedroom. I’ll leave most of it to your imagination, but I will…

He’s Not That Into You

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He’s Not That Into You

Dear Dategirl, I’ve been working in a marketing firm in Seattle for about a month. My job entails…

What Gives With This Hot-and-Cold Shock Treatment?

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What Gives With This Hot-and-Cold Shock Treatment?

Dear Dategirl, Just over a year ago, I met a man who I instantly felt that tingly buzz…

Why Is He So Rude?

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Why Is He So Rude?

Dear Dategirl, I recently met a guy through a friend, and though we seemed to share a very…

The Ghosts of Boyfriends Past

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The Ghosts of Boyfriends Past

Dear Dategirl, So, I finally met “the one.” He’s kind, funny, creative, and passionate. He drops by my…

Kirsten Ulve

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Who Gives a Shit About Your Cat-Murdering Roommate?

Dear Dategirl, My boyfriend, Ruby, just told me that he was the smartest person he knew. My reaction…