Judy McGuire

Dear Dategirl, I just heard from a friend of a friend that

Dear Dategirl,I just heard from a friend of a friend that this is your last column. Is this true? How can this be? Where will… Continue reading

 

Dear Dategirl, I am a hopeless geek. I like comics, cosplay, video

Dear Dategirl,I am a hopeless geek. I like comics, cosplay, video games, and even sometimes D&D. I am 37 years old, and haven’t had sex… Continue reading

 

Dear Dategirl, What do you do when your good friend’s girl

Dear Dategirl, What do you do when your good friend’s girl gets on your nerves? This girl has a horrible personality, refuses to let us… Continue reading

 

Dear Dategirl, I threw out my husband’s favorite T-shirt, and he’s

Dear Dategirl,I threw out my husband’s favorite T-shirt, and he’s furious. It was threadbare and one of the armpits was ripped out, but he sometimes… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, Since you have a Large Greek ™ , I

Dear Dategirl,Since you have a Large Greek™, I doubt you are aware of how difficult it is to find regular, quality, no-strings peen in America.… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, A young friend and occasional co-worker has started seeing

Dear Dategirl,A young friend and occasional co-worker has started seeing someone I briefly dated. I know you’re probably suspicious that I’m writing because I’m jealous.… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, I’m 24 and estranged from my family. It’s a

Dear Dategirl,I’m 24 and estranged from my family. It’s a long story, but they’re a collection of violent, drug/alcohol-addicted, racist, mentally ill psychopaths. I moved… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, Help! My ex-husband had an affair that broke up

Dear Dategirl, Help! My ex-husband had an affair that broke up our marriage, three years ago. He was screwing his assistant—cliche!—but they’re not together anymore.… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, My husband would rather spend time with his mother and

Dear Dategirl,My husband would rather spend time with his mother and sister than with me and our son. He, along with our son, spends nearly… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, In the past few months I’ve been called a

Dear Dategirl,In the past few months I’ve been called a whore, had my ass grabbed, had a bus driver stare at my tits and imply… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, Two years ago I met a guy while shopping

Dear Dategirl, Two years ago I met a guy while shopping in his store. We were both divorced, single, no kids, and both of us… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, Until yesterday I was casually seeing this guy, who

Dear Dategirl,Until yesterday I was casually seeing this guy, who I liked but wasn’t in love with by any stretch. I thought we might have… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, My girlfriend of three years just moved out. It

Dear Dategirl,My girlfriend of three years just moved out. It had been a long time coming—she’s of stoic Midwestern stock whose parents went to their… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, My girlfriend, “Mary,” recently lost a bunch of weight,

Dear Dategirl,My girlfriend, “Mary,” recently lost a bunch of weight, and she wasn’t fat. I was away at school (our colleges are in different states),… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl, I’m afraid I’m never going to have sex again.

Dear Dategirl, I’m afraid I’m never going to have sex again. It had been a while, and so last week, when I ran into an… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl,I’m not sure if I’m being emotionally abused by my boyfriend,

Dear Dategirl,I'm not sure if I'm being emotionally abused by my boyfriend, or if I'm oversensitive. He says I'm hypersensitive. We have only been together… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl,Is it wrong to “use” someone to get over the person

Dear Dategirl,Is it wrong to "use" someone to get over the person who broke my heart? I was married for five years when I found… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl,What do you do if you’re dating a man and you

Dear Dategirl,What do you do if you're dating a man and you don't like one of his kids? He and I had been seeing each… Continue reading

Dear Dategirl,I recently began dating a man I’ve had a crush on

Dear Dategirl,I recently began dating a man I've had a crush on since college. Fast-forward 10 years—I'm finally getting my wish. We had several chaste… Continue reading