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Dear Dategirl,I am a 41-year-old woman and have been trying to get

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Dear Dategirl,I am a 41-year-old woman and have been trying to get

Dear Dategirl,I am a 41-year-old woman and have been trying to get pregnant with my gay best friend.…

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Dear Dategirl,My husband is a professor, and as such is consistently surrounded

Dear Dategirl,My husband is a professor, and as such is consistently surrounded by beautiful young girls. This never…

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It Really Is the Thought That Counts

Dear Dategirl, Up until this Christmas, I really liked my girlfriend. We’re both 23, but she’s in college…

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Holiday Blues

Dear Dategirl, By the time you get this, I’ll have wasted another holiday with my in-laws. I’ll have…

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All I Want for Xmas Is a Roll in the Manger

Dear Dategirl, My boyfriend of almost one year is fucking amazing. He’s affectionate, sensitive, manly, emotionally present, vulnerable,…

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Cuckolded or Koo-Koo?

Dear Dategirl, My partner has had some inappropriate interactions with members of the opposite sex. I’ve discovered the…

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Crabby Cougar Seeks Randy Cub

Dear Dategirl, While I cringe at the whole “cougar” thing, I am increasingly interested in finding a younger…

Should I Marry Someone I Don't Love?

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Should I Marry Someone I Don’t Love?

Dear Dategirl, I’m not in love with the man I’m going to marry. He loves me. He’s in…

Is the Missionary Position Out of Style?

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Is the Missionary Position Out of Style?

Dear Dategirl, I haven’t had sex in the missionary position for at least a year. That’s not for…

Better Late Than Never?

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Better Late Than Never?

Dear Dategirl, My best friend in high school was a girl I always liked, but never made a…

Beejs and Backsies

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Beejs and Backsies

Dear Dategirl, How can I convince my boyfriend to go down on me? He thinks it’s gross. In…

Same-Sex Bitchy Ex

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Same-Sex Bitchy Ex

Dear Dategirl, Here is the situation: I dated a girl for a few months. It was complicated, as…

What About Two Lips on an Organ?

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What About Two Lips on an Organ?

Dear Dategirl, Tonight my friend Lola’s ex told her that if a guy comes on your chest, he…

When Your Friend Loves a Leghumper

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When Your Friend Loves a Leghumper

Dear Dategirl, Last night I ran into a good friend of mine and her somewhat-new boyfriend at a…

How to Say "You're a Tragic Lay"

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How to Say “You’re a Tragic Lay”

Dear Dategirl, I recently hooked up with a hot guy who’s obviously never been told—by any of the…

Get the 411, Hon

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Get the 411, Hon

Dear Dategirl, One of my closest friends is about 10 years older than I (so she’s in her…

Awkward With Asperger's

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Awkward With Asperger’s

Hello, Dategirl, While I don’t feel it truly defines me, I have Asperger’s. There are many stereotypes about…

A Tale of Two Husbands

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A Tale of Two Husbands

Dear Dategirl, Just found out that my husband signed up for ashleymadison.com. He has cheated in the past,…

Dating Dorks

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Dating Dorks

Dear Dategirl, So I made out with a friend on vacation. It was weird, because he is your…

Social-Media Mismanagement

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Social-Media Mismanagement

Dear Dategirl, I need your opinion. Last night my man and I had an argument, and this morning…