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Sad, Mad, and Bad
I lost my soulmate suddenly a year ago to liver cancer. It was a shock, the diagnosis and…
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The Etiquette of the One-Night Stand
This has already been said a million times, I’m sure, but men need to keep their big, stupid…
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Crushing and Crushed
Dear Dategirl, I have a huge crush on a pretty girl that I just met. Admittedly, I don’t…
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Bad Boys and Limp Chumps, I Mean Chimps
When women are young, available, and hot, they want a guy who exudes what I call the “power…
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Treat ’em Mean, Keep ’em Keen
I prefer men who are kind and treat me with respect. I believe most women feel the same.…
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New Year’s Knuckleheads!
I have some advice for you that you may not have thought of. What you and many other…
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Cross-Cultural Conundrum
In 1999, when my boyfriend of three years broke up with me to marry another girl, I was…
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Mistaken identity
Dear Dategirl, Are you as fun in person as your column is? (I’m new to it.) Would you…
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My Secret Box of Boys
I am in my early 30s. I am educated, have a good job, and own my own condo;…
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On the Prowl Again
I’ve been dipping back into the dating pool over the last year and posting some online personals. (I’m…
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Dategirl
This week’s column was incredibly easy to write. I received a deluge of mail, which translates to very…
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Long-distance lesbian love
Sex Advice Columnist Judy, Three weeks ago, I started seeing this girl who lives here in Seattle. I’m…
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Mr. Right?
I have heard that many women pine over finding Mr. Right. I can’t presume to be Mr. Right…
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Coke adds strife
Way back when I was just an innocent little lamb, I had a very sweet boyfriend we’ll call…
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The Case of the Toxic Bachelor
I’m dating this guy who hasn’t been active in years. He tried to kill himself by jumping off…
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I’ve been cheated
A couple weeks ago a guy e-mailed just to tell me that I sucked. Now this is not…
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Beware the Premenstrual Advice Lady
I’ve been flirting with a guy at my office for almost a year. Then, one day after a…
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The Blunder From Down Under
Just after 9/11, I fell in love with a Seattle girl. We went back to her boat the…
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Help!
Dear Readers, I’m cranky, broke, and depressed. It’s cold, it’s rainy, and I’ve got nobody to love. As…
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Lady-in-Waiting (and Waiting and Waiting . . . )
As weird as this may seem, even though I am not all that attracted to my girlfriend, we…