Oops. I Got Drunk And Fucked Up a First Date. Help!

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Oops. I Got Drunk And Fucked Up a First Date. Help!

Dear Dategirl, I “met” someone online. He seemed perfect. He was gorgeous, smart, funny, etc. But he was…

Jesus Hates a Heartbreaker

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Jesus Hates a Heartbreaker

Dear Dategirl, I’ve known this guy for four years, and the entire time he’s been carrying a torch…

Why Don't Hot Chicks Reach For the Check?

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Why Don’t Hot Chicks Reach For the Check?

Dear Dategirl, What is the protocol for deciding who pays on a date? I’m lucky in that I’ve…

Misery Loves Matrimony

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Misery Loves Matrimony

Dear Dategirl, I am a 25-year-old girl and have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for…

I Have Herpes, and I'm the Office Cocksman

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I Have Herpes, and I’m the Office Cocksman

Dear Dategirl, Two years ago I had a very brief sexual encounter with a woman in my office.…

Yeah, Baby, I Like It Raw

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Yeah, Baby, I Like It Raw

Dear Dategirl, I’ve been married for five years, and I love my wife more than anything.I’ve been away…

Ass-Play, Italians, and Your Junior Year Abroad

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Ass-Play, Italians, and Your Junior Year Abroad

Dear Dategirl, Are you ever going to write about your own scandalous behavior? Because otherwise you come off…

Is My Gut Too Quick to Judge?

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Is My Gut Too Quick to Judge?

Dear Dategirl, I recently read a column of yours on TheFrisky.com where you wrote about trusting your gut…

B&Bs Aren't for the Making of Hot Monkey Love

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B&Bs Aren’t for the Making of Hot Monkey Love

Dear Dategirl, I’ve met a terrific new woman—demure, successful, and hot. It’s almost time we check out the…

How Do I Meet Age-Appropriate Men Who Are Not Chicken?

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How Do I Meet Age-Appropriate Men Who Are Not Chicken?

Dear Dategirl, I’m divorced and didn’t meet anyone for three years after I left my marriage. Then suddenly…

Your Husband Is a Rapist

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Your Husband Is a Rapist

Dear Dategirl, Ever since I found out that my husband was cheating on me for most of our…

Propose! If He Won't, You Should

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Propose! If He Won’t, You Should

Dear Dategirl: For the past four years I’ve been in an e-mail/pen-pal relationship with a woman on the…

Fuck, Buddy

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Fuck, Buddy

Dear Dategirl, I’ve got the typical Friends With Benefits situation happening. I met him through mutual friends about…

Flat-Chested Fury

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Flat-Chested Fury

Dear Dategirl, I am a petite 20-year-old woman, but I have the face of a 14-year-old and a…

A Penis Just Can't Get a Break These Days

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A Penis Just Can’t Get a Break These Days

Dear Dategirl, Having just read your column on vagina pain [June 3], I was moved to relay my…

The Injured Clam

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The Injured Clam

Dear Dategirl, About a year and a half ago, I began having problems with painful sex. It got…

Amy's Sloppy Seconds

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Amy’s Sloppy Seconds

Dear Dategirl, I just ended a nine-year relationship and I’m starting to date again, but am having a…

How Rough Is Too Rough Between the Sheets?

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How Rough Is Too Rough Between the Sheets?

Dear Dategirl, My girlfriend and I are starting to realize that she is a masochist, or at least…

Last Night a DJ Cracked Me Up

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Last Night a DJ Cracked Me Up

Dear Dategirl, A semi-famous N.Y. musician—a DJ, actually—who was in town for his “day job” came into my…

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This Recession’s Killing My Erection

Dear Dategirl, I’ve been seeing my semi-boyfriend for a month. I like him, except he keeps nagging me…