• What Happened to Her Boobs?

    Dear Dategirl, Since my wife started breast-feeding, her boobs (and some other parts of her body) have really gone south. She just finished up with … More »

  • You’re Not the Boss of My Vagina

    Dear Dategirl, I’m afraid I’m never going to have sex again. It had been a while, and so last week, when I ran into an … More »

  • Dear Dategirl, Here’s something I’ve been mulling for a while: Is there such a thing as standards being “too high”? Is this a question whose … More »

  • Dategirl: Nagging Nicely

    Dear Dategirl, My boyfriend and I have been together for about four years—I love him, he loves me, blah, blah, blah. However, we have a … More »

  • Why Do His Female Friends Hate Me?

    Dear Dategirl, I am my husband’s third wife, and I am sick of all the garbage I constantly get from his female friends. I understand … More »

  • Yet Another Asshole Bride

    Dear Dategirl, My fiance and I are in the midst of wedding planning and have come across something of a problem: We both adore my … More »

  • Getting Over by Getting Down

    Dear Dategirl,Is it wrong to "use" someone to get over the person who broke my heart? I was married for five years when I found … More »

  • Emotional Abuser or Simply a Bastard?

    Dear Dategirl,I'm not sure if I'm being emotionally abused by my boyfriend, or if I'm oversensitive. He says I'm hypersensitive. We have only been together … More »

  • My Smelly Valentine

    Dear Dategirl,My boyfriend is 24 and showers, at most, two or three times a week, usually only at my insistence. He doesn't wear deodorant because … More »

  • Stepparenting the Bad Seed

    Dear Dategirl,What do you do if you're dating a man and you don't like one of his kids? He and I had been seeing each … More »

  • No Remorse = Divorce

    Dear Dategirl,My husband is a professor, and as such is consistently surrounded by beautiful young girls. This never bothered me until he had an affair … More »

  • Maybe-Gayby Problems

    Dear Dategirl,I am a 41-year-old woman and have been trying to get pregnant with my gay best friend. I've always thought it would be a … More »

  • Problem Penises and Pudenda

    Dear Dategirl,I recently began dating a man I've had a crush on since college. Fast-forward 10 years—I'm finally getting my wish. We had several chaste … More »

  • Cuckolded or Koo-Koo?

    Dear Dategirl,My partner has had some inappropriate interactions with members of the opposite sex. I've discovered the indiscretions on our computer and on my partner's … More »

  • All I Want for Xmas Is a Roll in the Manger

    Dear Dategirl,My boyfriend of almost one year is fucking amazing. He's affectionate, sensitive, manly, emotionally present, vulnerable, and wonderful with my kid.Sex is also amazing. … More »

  • Holiday Blues

    Dear Dategirl,By the time you get this, I'll have wasted another holiday with my in-laws. I'll have listened to their racist and homophobic jokes, fought … More »

  • It Really Is the Thought That Counts

    Dear Dategirl,Up until this Christmas, I really liked my girlfriend. We're both 23, but she's in college and I'm a musician who also works at … More »

  • Baby Boner-Killer

    Dear Dategirl,

    I'm a 51-year-old single man with grown children (23 and 25). I went on a date the other night with a 35-year-old woman …

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  • Help Me Stay in My Crap Marriage!

    Dear Dategirl,My husband isn't abusive, but I don't love him. I don't even like or respect him. He's a Republican (which I knew getting into … More »

  • Should I Marry Someone I Don't Love?

    Dear Dategirl, I'm not in love with the man I'm going to marry. He loves me. He's in love with me. I love him too, … More »