Cancer (June 21–July 22)
One person's reward is another's punishment. Make sure that what you're offering—or in some cases, very nearly forcing on someone—is something they actually want, not just something you think they ought to want (perhaps because you would, in their shoes). That your well-intentioned and generous gift would be a burden or a hassle may be a difficult thing to swallow, but it's something you'll need to accept. Spend this week thinking of ways to gracefully (not resentfully) withdraw your offering, perhaps replacing it with something that would be more gratefully and joyfully received, if you're so inclined.
Leo (July 23–Aug. 22)
Reclaiming words is the practice of stripping them of negative connotations and actively using them to describe yourself. It's owning words in a way that robs them of all power to ever hurt, oppress, or denigrate you. Disempowered groups have been reclaiming and adopting defamatory language for a long time, but this can work on a personal level as well. Whatever's been hurting you is something you can learn to own and accept about yourself. In this case, it might be something you can ultimately change—but only once you've acknowledged the accuracy of those unkind words.
Virgo (Aug. 23–Sept. 22)
What do you do when someone's attempts to help go wildly awry and end up creating extra problems and complications that never would have happened had they simply left the situation alone? Their heart was in the right place, after all. But now there's a mess to clean up. It's up to you to decide whether good intentions are enough. I'd suggest erring on the side of generosity, compassion, and tolerance. It's OK to give someone enough information to realize the mess they've made, if they're still clueless about it, but try not to stack it with a guilt trip, if you can.
Libra (Sept. 23–Oct. 22)
Progress frequently happens in fits and starts, often of the "two steps forward, one back" variety. Don't be discouraged by this, even in your own personal evolution. Obviously, too much negative movement wouldn't be a good thing, but acknowledge that there's a certain dance going on here as you adjust to your newer way of being. Focus on positive progress and forgive occasional reversions back to old habits, without dwelling too much on them. Being too rigid about your own growth will not only make you miserable, it's likely to stagnate it entirely. Just recognize the waltz, and be satisfied that you're moving more or less in the right direction, albeit perhaps in a roundabout fashion.
Scorpio (Oct. 23–Nov. 21)
There's no one wiser, deeper, and more amazing than a Scorpio who's had a chance to really evolve (a process which usually takes several decades or more). Of course, the inverse is also true—no one's more likely to be cruel, make devastating mistakes, or just really screw up a situation than an "unripe" Scorpio. Of course, that's exactly what makes you so wonderful once you've circled the block a few dozen times. If you're still in the process of "ripening"—that is, still prone to occasionally being cruel or screwing up horribly—recognize that it's precisely these things that will make you so wise and wonderful late in life, and forgive yourself.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22–Dec. 21)
Taking a step or two back is better than walking away. Sometimes those are your only options. You can't sustain things at the level you have been, so you essentially have two choices: Keep trying anyway, until you burn out completely and have nothing left to offer, and consequently need to just walk away; or reduce your involvement for a while so you can rest, recharge, and consider how to make the situation a sustainable and happy one. I think the latter option is better, since it doesn't spell the end of what could be a productive and fulfilling chapter—but it's on you to make it possible.
Capricorn (Dec. 22–Jan. 19)
Persistence is one of your best traits. It's often negatively labeled obsession or stubbornness, and of course, like any strength, it can be a weakness. Usually, though, it serves you well, and the current scenario could definitely benefit from its application. Don't let others discourage you with their wish that you'd give up more easily or their denigrations of your "obsession." Only through extreme perseverance will you achieve anything like what you're hoping for. This you have in spades—so don't let others' attempts to dissuade or distract you from your course actually keep you from pursuing it.
Aquarius (Jan. 20–Feb. 18)
When someone you love needs more from you than they usually do, it can suck. Suddenly you must make sacrifices that aren't particularly fair; however, the alternative—leaving them in the lurch—would probably make you feel worse. We always have choices, but sometimes the choices simply suck. It's your job to choose the "best" one and focus on its positive aspects. It'll probably be difficult to stay cheery in this situation; nevertheless, that's this week's challenge. The better you get at it, the less miserable the situation will be for all concerned—including you.
